My Husband’s Empathy Pregnancy

We are so thankful that our partners at Ford Motor Company let us check out the Empathy Pregnancy Belly Suit and learn more about how they’re making driving safer and more comfortable for moms!

We’ve all seen the scene in the movie when the pregnant women heaves herself out of the chair, belly-first, letting out a little (or a big) groan so she can shuffle across the room, chase after an unruly toddler, or heaven forbid – go to the bathroom. Before I was pregnant, I thought these women were exaggerating. I thought the awkward, pained movements and the large maneuvers were over-dramatized. I thought, “C’mon ladies, it can’t really be THAT bad.”

As it turns out, I was wrong. At some point in my previous (and now my current) pregnancy, I became one of those women – I am currently one of those women. Standing up is more of a giant momentum driven heaving move, and rolling over in bed usually involves some involuntary (and über feminine) groans. As it turns out, before one actually experiences pregnancy, it is nearly impossible to imagine just how cumbersome, heavy, and uncomfortable the belly and everything that comes with it can really be.

The absolute beauty of these graceful pregnant maneuvers hadn’t been lost on my husband . . . he has watched, and assisted, sometimes with a little bit of disbelief in his eye (which is fair, I’ve been known to have a bit of a flair for the dramatic) . . . Until now. Until he got to experience the one of the joys of pregnancy in all their hot, heavy, awkward glory. Until one summer day when he got experience empathy pregnancy and wear the Ford Motor Company Empathy Belly Suit – a weighted garment that enables women AND men to experience the effects of pregnancy

My Husband's Empathy Pregnancy | DMMB
Such a good sport . . . though the toddler is really confused.

This lovely belly let my husband experience firsthand just a little part of what pregnancy feels like – specifically while trying to load a toddler in the car, get himself into the car, buckle up, turn around to ask toddler to behave, drive a car . . . you get the picture. After about ten minutes in the thing, he summed up his experience like this, “That belly was HOT, it hurt my back, and made me feel really trapped.” I think he counted himself lucky that it didn’t come with kicks to the ribs/bladder, heartburn, and exhaustion. From my perspective, the boobs looked ridiculous on him, but it was really great for him to get to experience part of what pregnant women go through and how uncomfortable it can be to perform everyday tasks.

My Husband's Empathy Pregnancy | DMMB
oof, this is really NOT the most pleasant thing

Ford Motor Company’s Empathy Belly Suit was designed and used by Ford engineers to create vehicles that work in real life, that accommodate and adapt as people move to new stages of life, and that keep us all safe.

In a recent survey, Ford Motor Company found that 88% of women say they drove their entire pregnancy with only 7% stopping at the end of their third trimester.

  • 33% of respondents say they believe driving is a difficult task for women to accomplish while pregnant
  • 78% of respondents believe it is somewhat or much more difficult for women to fasten or adjust their seat belts when pregnant
  • One in three respondents believe safety technology is the most helpful technology for female drivers who are in the third trimester


Ford Empathy Pregnancy Suit | DMMB

Aside from being designed with pregnant mamas in mind, the newer Ford vehicles are designed and built with safety in mind. Some of the AWESOME safety features available that give us real peace of mind include:

  • Lane Keeping Aid: Consists of camera-based technology that applies a steering torque in the direction the driver needs to steer to keep the vehicle in the current lane
  • Blind Spot Monitoring (BLIS) with Cross Traffic Alert: Uses rear corner-mounted, side-looking radar that detects other vehicles around the car and illuminates an indicator lamp in the rearview mirror. When backing out of a parking space, the same sensors can detect vehicles approaching from the sides that may not be visible to the driver.
  • Adaptive Cruise Control: Helps drivers maintain a pre-set distance from the vehicle in front of them, using a radar module mounted at the front of the vehicle that measures the gap and closing speed to the vehicle ahead. The system automatically adjusts the speed of the car to help maintain a pre-set distance from the vehicle in front.

I for one think it’s awesome that my husband got to experience a little bit of an empathy pregnancy . . . and think it’s also awesome that Ford Motor Company is so dedicated to making vehicles that really work for families! I am also thankful for all of these fabulous photos that I have now shared with the world.

My Husband's Empathy Pregnancy | DMMB

What about you? Think it might be nice to put your spouse through a mini empathy pregnancy to feel what pregnant women go through?


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